Bridesmaid Weekend Take One.

On Saturday I was lucky enough to have all of my bridesmaids together (Britt even flew down from NJ) for some serious girl time.  We started off at David's Bridal so that the girls could try on the bridesmaid dress and get them ordered.  Then, we went to Kelly's house for a fabulous lunch that she hosted.  After that, we came back to Btown and stopped at The D, and ended the night at my house.  Oh, what a day! I love my girls so much and I am so fortunate to have them all in my life.  Here are a couple of pics from this weekend.

Day 7 - Your zodiac sign and if you think it fits your personality.

I was born on November 25th and I'm a Sagittarius.  I googled "sagittarius woman" and found this description:

"The Sagittarius woman is vivacious, funny, self assured, and sophisticated. She probably had an opportunity to travel as a child, and will need to continue to do so throughout her life. She's a woman who needs challenge and intellectual stimulation in all parts of her life. Sag women are often highly successful at what they set out to do simply because they are so positive they will succeed. Since the sign also rules international communication, they are either known worldwide or deal with matters of global importance. This is not an overly-sensitive sign, and when criticized, they listen carefully to the feedback. She should be careful not to hurt her mate's feelings by being too direct in her comments; Sag often has no idea of how her words effect others. Her man should also be sure to allow her a sense of freedom which is highly important to the Sag woman."

Some of this description is accurate, other parts, not so much. I would like to think of myself as vivacious, funny, and sophisticated - I wouldn't describe myself as "self assured," but, I'm trying to work on that.  I did travel when I was younger and I do like to travel ... mostly to NYC, ha! I would agree that I am someone that needs a challenge and intellectual stimulation.  I would say that I am typically successful at what I set out to do; however, it's not so much because I'm positive that I will succeed (because then I would be self assured) - but, more so because I don't like to fail at anything.  I am a sensitive person and I think that I can be overly-sensitive at times, but, it is true that I do listen carefully to criticism.  I wouldn't describe myself as being someone that is direct with my comments, although I do have my moments.  I tend to beat around the bush and because I try to avoid conflict, I typically will hold back on making comments.  But, I will say that recently I've realized that I need to speak up more and I do need to be more direct with my comments because I tend to get my feelings hurt or taken advantage of, and, I'm tired of it! Finally, yes, I do love my freedom - I love and cherish my alone time and I think that it's something that every person should make a point of having. 

I hope you all have a fabulous weekend! This weekend is a girls' weekend for me and I am excited :)

xoxo,

M

I want. I need.

So, within the next couple of months, I know that I will have some wedding showers to attend and because our wedding will be a nautical themed wedding, I need to purchase these cute little items from Express, asap:

So cute, right?

Day 6 - 30 interesting facts about me!

1. I'm an only child.
2. I love to read.
3. I have a blanket that I have to sleep with every night.
4. I only sleep under the comforter, no sheets for me!
5. I have 2 cats.
6. We have a goldfish pond at our house.
7. I love the smell of sharpies.
8. I have a pen addiction.
9. I'm getting married on 11.03.12.
10. I wanted to be a speech pathologist before deciding on law school.
11. I'm a hoarder of wine corks...seriously!
12. I have a craft room in our house.
13. I hate putting away clothes, but, I love shopping for them.
14. I love spicy food.
15. I want to make my craftiness (is that even a word?) into a business.
16. I'm obsessed with looking at blogs (I have about 25 that I go on daily).
17. I love dresses.
18. I can't stand when people whistle - like fingernails on a chalkboard.
19. I love sandals and I wish I could wear them year round (yes, it does get cold here in Florida).
20. I love turquoise.
21. I love bbq, collard greens, and cornbread.
22. I am obsessed with buying christmas decorations.
23. I can't walk around the house barefoot.
24. I hate blowdrying my hair.
25. I can do my make up in five minutes.
26. I wash my hair like twice a week.
27. I am lacking the patience department.
28. I love making lists...and I love checking items off those lists.
29. I am an avid online shopper.
30. I love reality tv shows.

Ok, there you go friends, 30 interesting facts about me....man it took a long time to think up all 30.

xoxo,

M

Day 5 of the Blog Challenge.

Today's topic is "a time you thought about ending your own life." Wow, heavy subject! I've never had a time when things were so bad, or that I felt so hopeless, that I thought that taking my own life was the answer.  It is so hard for me to fathom feeling so hopeless that you think suicide is the answer.  I had a friend that committed suicide when I was in high school - we met in elementary school and also went to middle school together.  By the end of middle school, we didn't really hang out that much because we were in 2 completely "social circles" and truthfully, I didn't like the person that he had become.  We went to different high schools and I actually saw him the day that he committed suicide.  He was in my high school parking lot when I got out and I remember thinking that I just wanted to get home and didn't really feel like walking over and saying hi to him.  I've always felt so bad about my decision that day, I guess I think that maybe if I would have gone over to him, maybe I would have known, or maybe I would have been able to help him. Suicide just doesn't affect the person, it affects that person's family and friends.  His sister found him and I'm sure that there is not a day that goes by in her life that she doesn't think of that day.  I think what I have taken from this experience is twofold: (1) always tell the people that you care about that you love them and (2) be nice to others because you never truly know what that person is going through - it doesn't cost anything to smile at someone!

Days 3 and 4 of the challenge.

Day 3 topic: "your views on drugs and alcohol."

I've known a lot of people in  my life who have passed away as a result of a drug overdose. So, I have seen first hand what a drug addiction does to a person if they are never able to kick the addiction.  Our country is obviously facing a huge problem with prescription pill addiction and the so-called "clinics" and "pill doctors" that are at the root of the problem.. Fortunately, the people of Florida have recognized the problem and legislation has passed and laws have been passed in an attempt to crack down on these places and doctors - but, there is so much more to do.  Drugs in our society are a huge problem and although I do not believe there will ever come a time where the problem does not exist - I think that more can be done to save lives.  

With regards to alcohol, my view is that alcohol is fine in moderation.  Most of us have had those crazy nights where we probably didn't drink in moderation, but, so long as those are isolated events and not the norm, I do not feel that alcohol is a problem.

Day 4 topic: "your views on religion."

My view on religion is simple: everyone celebrates spirituality in different ways. No one person's way of being spiritual is better than that of someone else.  We shouldn't judge another person's spirituality.

M

Where I would like to be in 10 years.

Day 2 of challenge.  Today's topic: "where I would like to be in 10 years."

In 10 years I will be ... old (I shutter just to think about it).  Hmm... I would like to have a family (1-2 kids),  married to JWP, and content in my career.  My current struggle is being content with my career - I enjoy being an attorney, I enjoy working in an office setting, and I enjoy the variety of work; however, I wish I got more "soul satisfaction" out of what I do. I wrote about this in a previous post-that my role as an attorney does not always fulfill my soul.   

I would like to be able to look back in 10 years and be happy in all that I've accomplished and feel that in no matter how small of a way, I've made a difference in the world.

I would love to have a little marisa and/or a little jwp and to be living life to the fullest and continuing to celebrate this beautiful life that I have been given.

Happy Friday, peeps!

Oh, and just in case you were curious as to what our kid(s) would look like, according to the baby morpher, they would look a lil' something like this:

Loves,

M